“supernatural”
August 8, 2006, 11:12 pm
Filed under: life

My wife had surgery today.  It was kind of like the end of a long, painful, very drawn out journey.  The short version is: we were trying to make a baby, but couldn’t (despite our best efforts).  We sought out the help of a doctor (a great doctor), who found an ovarian cyst which was preventing baby-making.  It is never encouraging to hear that your wife is unhealthy when all evidence shows the contrary.  We tried several different methods of medication and the like to make the cyst go away.  It did not go away, but got bigger.  So, six months into this mess she finally underwent surgery to remove the cyst.  Surgery went great – cyst is gone.

This morning waiting for surgery we were talking and Whitney asked, “So what’s the lesson in this?  What is God teaching us through all of this?”  Initially, we both thought we wouldn’t have to have surgery, that they cyst would simply disappear, a miracle of sorts, that God would divinely intervene and do what medicine could not and there in would be the reason for all of this.  I’m not saying God doesn’t work through medicine.  He does and has on our part.  It is a miracle that doctors can do what they can do.  However, seeing as how God is supernatural and all, it is logical that we would expect something supernatural to happen in this circumstance.  But the end result is pretty normal, something that happens everyday with normal people just like me and you.  So where is the “Aha!” moment?  Where is the supernatural?

I recently read a quote that basically says: “I was waiting to start some things, to start life.  I was waiting for this hindrance to be relieved and I was waiting for these obstacles to be removed.  And then I realized that these hindrances and obstacles ARE my life.” 

Perhaps the lesson is not some supernatural, mind-boggling, Aha moment.  Perhaps the lesson is that life is tough, but God through us is tougher.  We survived this personal crisis.  It wasn’t the first crisis, and it won’t be the last crisis.  We have survived, and we will survive again.  Natural life is tough.  Surviving the tough times is supernatural.

How often do we miss what God is doing because we’re looking for the supernatural when all the while He is in the natural?  I think God is much more practical than we give Him credit for.  Don’t miss God today.


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Glad Whitney is doing well David.

You guys are awesome. So much to look forward to in your life raising kids, “growing up” together through the seasons of life, and developing the character required to get through the tough times.

I think you already hit on the key. By sinply asking the question, Whitney showed her desire to seek out God. By discussing it together, you showed that God is the center of your marriage. Any time you have a crisis, be it large or small, asking him to help will always serve us well.

My toughest times have been when I did not do that. Even small crises are difficult if I try and handle them alone.

God is in the natural, of course he is. But he is so often overlooked. He is also there for us to enjoy and fellowship with, not just when we have a problem. I forget that part a lot.

Comment by Dennis Rice

I missed a lot of what God was doing with Cole because I thought what HE DID would look really different. The miracle is often in getting us to depend on and trust him.

Comment by Jay Hanson

Man, I need to develop that habit every day of looking back at what God did TODAY.

I bet it would eventually develop into a habit of looking eagerly toward what God will do TOMORROW…

I bet that would turn into really looking forward to what God will do in ETERNITY.

Wait, he already told us what he was gonna do. I gotta get this chain linked up right …., so I can look forward to eternity with God.

Comment by Dennis Rice

Good news for you and Whitney! Not sure if you know this or not, but I really look up to the two of you and your marriage, commitment to God in your marriage, as well as individuals too.

Sorry that I didn’t make it this morning to the men’s bible study. I actually stayed home from work all day today to get well. Next week I can make it for sure given that my cold gets better and not worse.

Have a great time on Sunday…you are the skim board king…next to Cole that is! I’m heading up to N’ville for one of the very last times! Yeehaw!!

Comment by patrickwitherow

David…I hope you don’t mind me jumping in on your blog. Sharing your faith with each other, sharing your strenght through God will carry your marriage thru each crisis.
I believe we do get stronger with each crisis we survive, knowing that God has us wrapped in his arms the whole time.
I underwent the same surgery, several times. I was told I would not ever have children. (Then Jordan was born.. Jan. 14, 1991). Following his birth, I had to undergo a hysterectomy. I didn’t handle that crisis quite as well. I questioned God so many times. We trusted God, We knew he had plans for our life with or without more children. But, the pain was still there. Twelve years later, on the other side of the world (jan. 14 2003) Amber was born.

Comment by rufwriter

What role in our life is played with medicine? Health of the nation is a priority problem of the government in the field of health protection. WBR LeoP

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